Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Be The Winning Speaker Part3 - Strategy3: Add Humor & Humility


Dear loving people,

Humor and humility are always a great way to make a presentation more enjoyable. It can also actually relax you to make you feel more at ease. This has worked quite well for me. It should for you.

By adding humor and humility to your presentation, you are not only entertaining your listeners but you are also relating to them as well. After all, being humble makes you more credible, more believable and more respected. Just think about this for a moment.

By simply standing up in front of an audience and sharing some of your own weaknesses and mistakes, you create an environment where your listeners can acknowledge their shortcomings as well. This automatically resonates with them and relates you to them where in essence you become “one of them” instead of just the presenter. Heck, you can even combine together the humor factor with the humility factor.

Take for example, try telling a humorous story about yourself that also demonstrates some point you are trying to make, i.e., some mistake that you made that you now laugh about. This will immediately resonate with your audience and go a long way in building rapport with them.

So, just be yourself and be open. Don’t be afraid to show your vulnerabilities, even if they seem awkward. I once saw a man speak at a timed speech where he messed up the timing for the auto-slides, and was completely embarrassed. He talked about how embarrassed he was and tried very hard to keep going. The entire audience was sympathizing with him and was rooting for him to succeed.

Another way to make the time fly when you are giving a presentation is to engage the audience. This also will relax you and dampen any anxiety you may have by responding to your audience.

Talk to you next loving people when we will dwell on the next strategy; Interacting with your audience.

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Be The Winning Speaker Part2 - Strategy 2: Be Prepared and Organized


Dear loving people, 

Our second strategy is to be Prepared & Organized. One of the best ways to reduce the fear of public speaking is to always be prepared. Although you may think you have to deliver mountains of facts or details to give your audience what they want, the truth is that you only need to make a couple main points to have your presentation be successful.

A great way to do this is to create an outline. An outline will help you to organize, plan and present your ideas. Plus if you get off track or get lost during your speech, you can quickly refer back to your outline to get you back on point.

Remember, all your audience simply wants from you is to walk away with one or two key points that will make a difference to them. If you structure your presentation to deliver this result, you will be successful. Plus, this will make your job as a speaker much easier and more fun too.

Another way to make your job as a speaker much easier is to add humor and humility to your presentation. 

This is a special spice from Living Lectures and we’ll be dwelling on humor in the next strategy.

Gracias