Bank On Yourself for Success

Dear Loving People, 

There comes a time in your life when you have to make the hard decision to work for your own success. The more convincing such a decision is to yourself, the more you are prepared to work for it. 

Taking a frank decision acts upon your system like some sort of self hypnosis. Then you develop a plan on how to get to the winning point, the plan becomes translated into a physical reality because not only are you motivated, but you are equally determined to do what it takes to succeed and by focusing on what you have to do. 

unfortunately for many people, no other person can decide about your success on your behalf, it has jut got to be you and you alone. You may have all the advice you need, you might attend all the talk-shops you can find but when it comes to moving ahead with your dream, only you can do that. I talk to people who tell me that they depend on external stimulation in order to perform. They feel better and get moving when people tell them how great they are and that they are doing just fine. 

If you really mean to succeed, you must not wait on external stimuli to get the things that you must do done, You have to move on with the right things that you have to do with or without the often short-lived appreciations from the people you come across. 

To bank on your self for success means you must primordially three things: 

1. Determine what exactly you want to do. To get to some place, you must know where you are going to. Have a definite objective, a clear purpose for your life. That one thing you want to accomplish as the biggest of your dreams.
2.  Cutout a plan to achieve you dream. It can be terrible sailing far off into the open sea without a compass, same with dreams. You need a clear plan of action that will take you to your dream. You plan must be feasible and realistic. Don't plan to safe the world while still in your donjon.  
3. Stay Focused. One weakness of a failure personality is changing course on a too frequent basis. You have to stay focused on your goals and not stuffing yourself up with multiple goals all the times without any results. 

Focusing on your goal makes you determined to succeed and leaves you self motivated. In all that you do, you must always remember that the responsibility to succeed in life lies in you and nobody else. 

You have to do all it takes to achieve your goals if after all you meant business.