I received five good emails from some
of you asking me to comment on Self Confidence. Thanks for those who made this
request, Let me start by saying that Self Confidence is being at your best in
the things you do all because you belief in who you are. For you to be at your
best in the things you do, you’ve got to know what you truly want in life.
Get this from me, if a person has no
idea at all of what they want in life; how self confident do you think they
will be? Now imagine them by comparison to a person who is absolutely
clear and has made well thought out decisions about what they want in life. Who
has more self confidence?
It doesn’t matter how much you try to
act confident or affirm to yourself that you are confident, if you do not take
care of this area: “knowing yourself and
what you really want in your life”, then you simply will not have
excellent self confidence. This has been researched quite extensively in
psychological studies and overwhelmingly conclusions have shown that people
who have self clarity, a clear ‘self concept’ or ‘self identity’ have far
greater self confidence than those who do not. Those who gain clarity
about what they want, what their life purpose is and vision for their lives
jump sometimes immeasurably in self confidence.
My message to you today is thus, simple
but profound: Know What You Want.
Do whatever it takes to really get in touch with your true, authentic self.
That person, when you become fully aligned with them has all the confidence you
ever need for anything you want to accomplish or do. Be the truest you and you
will never feel the unconfident or insecure need to hide behind any behaviors
or appearances.
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