Dear loving people,
Do you wake up each
morning thinking about people you don’t like, feeling stressed and anxious
about the workday ahead of you? Jelly Wong says “Never Waste A Minute Of Your
Precious Life By Squandering It Thinking About People You Don’t Like”
Do you feel dread and fear when thinking about what you have to do to achieve
your dreams? If you're like the vast majority of people, the answer is a
resounding yes.
The American
Psychological Association found out that the most commonly reported sources
of stress include: Money, Work, The economy, Family responsibilities,
and Personal health concerns and trust me, this is worse in Africa. So, what if
you could alleviate some of that fear and stress each morning and every other
minute you spend during the day? I would say that a greater part of the solution
lies within your subconscious mind. Do you know that the way you handle every
blessed minute of your day can largely determine how productive and effective
you'll be throughout and consequently, how close you get towards your dreams? It’s the
sum of your minute by minute state of mind and actions that either take you
closer to your goals or further away from them.
It’s been proven that we have two
distinct minds, the conscious and the subconscious. Brian Tracy explains that your conscious mind can be thought of as the gardener,
planting seeds; your subconscious mind can be thought of as the garden, or
fertile soil, in which the seeds germinate and grow. Your subconscious
mind will act upon any request or instruction you
give it. It cannot distinguish between what is real and what is
imagined. It's been said that your subconscious mind is in control of at
least 95 percent of your day. Simply put, if you wake up feeling
stressed, anxious, and fearful about the day ahead, and picture all of the bad
things that are going to happen, many of them will. If you flip that on its
head and focus on all of the good things that are going to happen, many of them
will. Dr. Joseph Murphy sums this up perfectly “As you sow in your subconscious
mind, so shall you reap in your body and environment.”
This
means that, "Getting off on the right foot isn't just important with
relationships, it's important with the start of any workday, as well —
particularly busy ones," says Michael Kerr. "The first 10 minutes can
also set the tone and your attitude for the day — so it's imperative that you
start it off right, with a clean slate."
Lynn
Taylor agrees. "Those brief moments can predict your all-important mindset
because they're the first impression of your day ahead," she says.
"The
first few minutes at the office can be the most stressful because there's a
level of anxiety about what you may face: a sudden onslaught of urgent emails;
last minute crises or meetings; a call to stop by the boss's office; a cranky
coworker, and so on. It takes greater self-awareness, a positive mindset, and
self-training each morning to counter what feels like negative gravity pulling
you down as you face overwhelming demands."
She
says you can, and should, choose to proactively resist the temptation to
succumb to chaos by viewing morning developments as new challenges that you're
equipped to handle. "You'll have a much more positive outcome by day's end, and in
general," she says. "This is how the most successful people
typically start their workdays." Kerr says successful people
tend to thrive on routine and habits. "Creating consistent habits is largely
what makes them successful," he explains. "And a key time for
habit-forming practices is at the start of the day."
Taylor
concurs. She says successful people most often follow a routine each morning to
add some level of predictability to an otherwise unpredictable time of day. "They're
about to face an array of new and unexpected issues, and they counter this with
a strong positive mindset; a reliable, doable set of actions; discipline; and
ability to focus." Once you've set a strong foundation for a
productive day, you're in better stead to get meaningful results.
Just
imagine what will happen if you integrate this as part of your minute by minute
reflections and frame of mind? You will not have to do it consciously for long
as it would have taken firm grip of your habits and thus you swing smoothly
into the circle of high achievers.
In
your place, I will give it a big try. After all, it will cost you nothing to
try it.
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