Thursday, November 12, 2015

Discard a Few Friends? Fact 01



Dear lovely people,

Friendship is one of the best things that can happen to you. Nobody and succeed alone, you need people around you to carry forth with your dreams. Friends can stand by you at all times, in the rain as well as in the sun but what happens when some of the those you call friends become a liability, a drag on your resources and energy? Time to discard such friends right?

Hold on, before you launch into action, consider the benefits. Actually take the time to consider the positives your friend brings into your life and especially into dream of a better life. It’s only fair to think about how much they mean to you and all the pleasure and support they offer aside from the recent difficulties. Dismissing this can cause you to undervalue them in a state of anger, and you don’t want to make a huge decision like this in haste.

It was well between Joseph, Abadel and Flaski until the night Joseph realized that the girl of her dreams, the girl who had so metamorphosed him two weeks earlier spent the previous night in Flaski’s house. Joseph was read with rage, “how could Flaski even think of spending a night with his girl?” Joseph kept asking himself as he headed for Flaski’s house. He picked up his phone beside the gear-lever and dialed Abadel’s number, he wanted them to meet at Flaski’s house to sort out the mess once and for all. Then it happened, he didn’t see the oncoming car while dialing Abadel’s number and the next thing he heard was the sound of the head-on collision and all went dark…

The unfortunate truth is that you may realize at this point that any value they did bring to your life has long since disappeared; sometimes that’s just the way life goes. Just as you’re changing for the better, sometimes people change for the worse. Whatever the reason, if a person brings nothing of value to your life other than negativity, it might be time to let them go.

Talk to you in Fact 2 wherein we will talk about the importance of clearly understanding the negatives.

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