Dear Lovely People,
After going through the positive
benefits a particular friend brings into your life, it’s time to get serious
about the negatives. Seek to clearly understand the negatives. How detrimental
is your friend’s behavior and attitude towards your own life in general and
especially towards your fondest dream? Is it going to really affect your
progress, or is it likely to just be a temporary growing pain that they’ll get
used to just like they’ve always gotten used to the changes life brings?
Three months later after Joseph left
the hospital, he went into introspection and reexamining his friendship with
Abadel and Flaski. It downed on him that Abadel had been the problem all along.
It was Abadel who setup Flaski. The girl came to Flaski’s house late that fateful
evening because Abedel informed her Joseph will be there. They waited late into
the night to no avail and Flaski advised her to stay the night at his place
because it was late and she was living in a risky neighborhood to be walking
alone at night. Flaski actually slept on the couch that night, while the girl
used his bedroom.
Joseph then flashed back to when the
same Abadel framed him up at the job-site four months back, it was him who lied
to a colleague that Joseph’s diploma is fake. He was the center of gossip at
the job-site and always engaged in horrific fights most of the times they went to
the nightclub.
Don’t underestimate the value of your own self-esteem or the
ability of others to cut the drive right out of you with a simple comment. On a similar vein,
if you’re trying to quit a destructive habit, like excessive drinking for
example, you should know that old friends who still do those things and can’t
seem to step away from their demons are a particularly big risk to you.
Talk to you in Fact 3
wherein we will talk about the action you need to take after having known the
benefits and clearly understanding the negatives.
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