Dear lovely people,
According to Webster's Dictionary, a
fact is "anything that is done or happens; anything actually existent; any
statement strictly true; truth; reality." So I consider a
statement such as “my daughter had a
temperature of 50 degrees this morning.” To be a fact.
Whereas
an opinion is defined as "indicating a belief, view, sentiment,
conception." Where in you find descriptive words such as "Generally,
it is thought”, "I believe that", etc. in which case, the same
statement above becomes an opinion if a belief or view is added to it: “I couldn’t go to work because my daughter
had a temperature of 50 degrees this morning.”
Sometimes
it is challenging to tell the facts and opinions apart. For example, "Barack Obama is the living most
eloquent orator of all Presidents the world over." This is an opinion,
but you have to know that eloquent is a descriptive word for this to become
clear. Descriptive words are subjective, or state someone's opinion.
Treading
the slippery paths to success requires that you fully understand this difference
and not confuse them. Confusing them can constitute a major source of
discouragement and self-demotivation for example: It’s a fact that many people who
set out to achieve success in life, never attain it but it’s only your opinion
that you fall amongst the people who never attain success. If you hold
strong to such a belief, you can find yourself resisting to do the things you
need to do to succeed.
It
was different in the case of Ngollibe, it was an established fact that she was
underperforming at her job as Senior Projects Manger but it was only her
Supervisor’s opinion that Ngollibe will never become a good manager. Her
supervisor would make a mockery of her even during corporate meetings to the
point that many other colleagues started seeing Ngollibe through that lens of
incompetence. Ngollibe however, did not subscribe neither to this poor rating
nor to her supervisor’s opinion. Deep down in her, she knew she could learn
fast and correct course. She knew it will not be easy but she had the confidence
that she could turn the tides to her favor and so she took her destiny into her
hands. Eight years later, Ngollibe was named the company’s CEO.
When
you can clearly establish the difference between a fact and an opinion, many
other things permitting you to walk the path to success becomes visible and at
your fingertips.
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