Dear lovely people,
In
your quest for success, you will make millions of little decisions all the
time, and the result of each one will be either net positive, net negative or even
neutral. The more net positive decisions you can make, the better for you and
the faster you move towards your goal. Net positive decisions require effort: jumping
out of bed early every morning when you felt like sleeping, restarting from
scratch each time you failed, accepting insults in order to learn facts about
your domain etc. these are a few examples of many actions that help you feel
good and bring you one step closer to your goals despite the effort they
entail.
On
the other hand, net negative decisions such as: hanging out with friends that
don’t believe in your dream, absorbing discouraging messages from people, chasing
get-rich-quick schemes, or engaging with people who have a high affinity for
negativity make it difficult to reach your goals because your decisions don't
make you feel good, empowered, confident and loaded with energy to push ahead.
They take more out of you than they give, interfering with your energy levels,
sapping your motivation, and clouding your focus.
Here
is the fact! Net positive or negative outcomes don't come to people who do not
ask for them. You are a magnet of either positive or negative outcomes
depending on where your focus is. You give yourself a better chance to be on
the positive side of the curve if you stake claim for anything that you think
should be rightfully yours. This, though, does not mean you should be
combative, aggressive, rude or disrespectful. It just means do not be naive
when it comes to managing your plans for success.
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